Top Tips for Planning a Dream Destination Elopement
There’s something wildly romantic about saying “I do” on a cliffside in Santorini, in the forests of the Pacific Northwest, or barefoot on a beach in Tulum. Destination elopements are all about escaping tradition and creating a wedding day that’s deeply personal, adventurous, and unforgettable. But just because you’re skipping the big guest list doesn’t mean you can skip the planning. Here’s what you need to know to make your dream destination elopement smooth, stress-free, and stunning.
1. Choose a Location That Speaks to You
Your location sets the tone for your entire elopement. Whether it’s the mountains, the desert, the ocean, or a charming European village, make sure it reflects your personalities and what brings you joy. Consider travel accessibility, local legal marriage requirements, and the time of year for weather and crowds.
Pro Tip: Some of the most epic spots require permits or have restrictions—always check ahead!
2. Hire a Local or Destination-Savvy Photographer
Photos are one of the few things you’ll keep forever from your elopement. Choose a photographer who not only matches your aesthetic but knows how to work in unique lighting and remote or outdoor environments. Bonus if they’ve shot in your destination before—they’ll know the best hidden spots and ideal times of day to shoot.
3. Don’t Skip the Legal Details
Getting legally married abroad can be tricky. Some couples opt to take care of the legal paperwork at home and treat their destination ceremony as symbolic. If you’re set on making it official while abroad, research visa requirements, residency rules, translations, and documentation needed.
Shortcut: Get legally married at your courthouse before the trip, then fully relax and focus on your vows during your elopement day.
4. Build a Flexible Timeline
Unlike a traditional wedding, your day isn’t bound by a packed schedule—and that’s a huge perk. Plan your elopement day like the best adventure date ever. Hike to a sunrise ceremony, have a picnic breakfast, explore the area together, then end with a candlelit dinner under the stars.
Think in experiences, not just photos. This is your love story—live it fully.
5. Pack Smart (and Stylish)
Destination elopements often involve a lot of movement—hiking, traveling, unpredictable weather—so pack light but purposefully. Bring comfortable shoes, backup outfits, weather essentials, and a solid day-of emergency kit. And don’t forget to protect the dress or suit in transit!
6. Add Meaningful Touches
Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean you can’t include personal details. Write your own vows, carry a family heirloom, bring handwritten letters from loved ones, or have a first dance to your favorite song. Small things can make a big emotional impact.
7. Plan a Celebration (Big or Small)
If you’re skipping the big party, consider planning a celebration back home—a backyard dinner, a casual brunch, or a simple gathering to share your elopement photos and relive the magic with friends and family.
Or make your elopement part of a larger trip and keep the celebration going with a honeymoon right after!
Final Thoughts
A destination elopement is a chance to ditch the pressure and expectations of a traditional wedding and focus on what truly matters: the two of you. With thoughtful planning, a spirit of adventure, and a little flexibility, it can be the most intimate and unforgettable way to start your life together.
Thinking about a destination elopement? Reach out for location ideas, planning tips, or photography options. Let’s make your elopement story one for the books.