Frequently Asked Questions About Elopements

1. What exactly is an elopement these days?

Modern elopements are intimate, personalized wedding experiences focused on the couple. They can be just the two of you, or include a handful of loved ones. They're about intentionality, not secrecy.

2. Can we still elope somewhere beautiful even if we’re not “outdoorsy”?

Absolutely! While many couples choose mountains or beaches, elopements can happen in city parks, Airbnb rooftops, cozy cabins, art galleries—you name it. You don’t need to hike 10 miles to have a meaningful elopement.

3. How long does an elopement take?

Elopements can range from a 1-hour ceremony to a full-day or even multi-day experience. Many couples opt for a half or full-day timeline to allow space for getting ready, adventuring, and celebrating.

4. Can we invite guests?

Yes! “Eloping” doesn’t mean you have to be completely alone. Many couples bring parents or a few close friends. Just keep in mind that a small guest list keeps the day more flexible and focused on you.

5. Do we need to hire vendors for an elopement?

You don’t have to—but many couples hire a photographer, officiant, florist, or even a private chef. The right vendors enhance your experience while keeping it stress-free and beautiful.

6. Is it legally recognized?

Yes! You can still file for a marriage license in your state or destination. Just check the local requirements ahead of time (some places require witnesses or officiants; others let you self-solemnize).

7. How far in advance should we plan?

You can plan an elopement in a few weeks or several months in advance, depending on your vision. If you want a popular location or specific vendors, earlier is better.

8. Will it feel “less special” than a traditional wedding?

Not at all. In fact, many couples say it feels more special because it's entirely focused on their connection and values. No pressure. No distractions. Just the two of you, choosing each other.